one more thing. there's one thing that i think everyone should do. define who really matters to you and who matters more. lover, family, or friends. they dont enjoy the same level of priority. one weigh more than the other. imagine a natural disaster broke out and you have very lil time to decide who you want to be with at that very moment. who will you choose? assuming you are attached to the girl of your dreams. will you choose to visit all your best buddies? or stay with your family? or choose to spend the crucial moments with the girl of your dreams?

My decision is to bring my family to safety then go look for my lover, secure her family then visit all of my buddies. so my priority is my family, lover then friends. what's yours'? What do you truly want.

My dream is to run a pub with some of my best buds and provide a place to hangout for our friends and many other strangers. It's a dream i truly want to fufil and working towards it. what's your dream? what do you want to achieve before you sleep forever?

I've come to a conclusion after some thinking of issues encountered today.

I should always think of the situation and try to find the best possible solution that fits into the equation and solves it, while not condemning all possibilities.

I should consider all possibility then decide on the one with the most feasibility and suggest that possibility. Rather than suggesting all possibilities and then let others decide on the one with the most feasibility.

One more lesson of the day is that I should not try to impose my thoughts and perspectives on another person as he/she may not look at it that way. It is rude and demanding of me to impose my thoughts and perspectives on another person.

*but of course, when things are getting out of hand, sharing your views and perspectives may help situations/people to improve*

I'm pretty irritated with communication breakdowns though. Communication breakdowns leads to unforeseen circumstances and at many occasions, decisions have to be made again and losses are incurred.

Rational over emotional. *but i think being emotional is cooler cause i cant do it. its too strenuous for me.*

friends are to be treated with respect and never taken for granted. If one does not know how to let them know how much they mean to one, one should try his very best to reciprocate in the forms of actions. Even the simplest actions like trusting one's friends is enough to allow one's friends to continue giving for one. However, if no actions are taken to show how much they matter and only actions of denial and rejection are obvious, then one can only be prepared to lose one's friends and has no one or nothing to blame but oneself.

朋友来的不易，一辈子的朋友更难找。愿意为你付出的朋友，值得你去珍惜。对待朋友应该是真心对待。信任和关怀更不能少。不要辜负他们对你的真心对待。不然失去他们后，想再找像他们一样对你那么好的朋友，几乎是不可能的。

旧的不去新的不来。
有些东西能那么容易哄自己放下就好了。。


我要和我的朋友们一起住在我们建的后院里！

鲁伊已决定了。我要享受每分每秒，然后赚很多很多的钱！过后才和自己深爱的另一半悠哉的过下半辈子! 等着看我的决心吧！

yes sM.. im gonna update now.. =D

watched the first 30 minutes of saw 1. was irritated by the amount of gore. not really sure whether i want to finish watching all of it now. =(

discussed with edwin about the whole "multi-logy"'s plot and finally realise what the show is actually about. the whole show is actually about how this guy named, jigsaw, try to see what people can do in order to survive. and the moral of the story is to "treasure life". *we've also more or less come to a conclusion that we will most likely just die if we're ever in those situations. either that or we'll die be4 we die by the traps*

i want to cut my hair.

sorry about the prev post. weren't sure of what i was typing anyway. and im too lazy to go recall what i was trying to convey and edit the post. hence, just intepret it whichever way you like and if you're bothered, i advise you to get over it as i wont be too bothered by the fact that you are bothered. this being so, you being bothered does not bother anybody else but yourself.

exams period. im a lucky guy.

congratulations to aunty elizabeth tan siying for having presented her project and getting graduated soon ! don't ignore us once you step into working society !

i want to get a game to play again. its that time of the year.

ima go eat my big wheat now.. tata !

i really thank the mystery man who gave me the chance to meet my friends.

they're really the best bunch of people i've ever met.

siying is like a big sister always there to support me when i needed some. =D thanks.
shaun is like the brudder whom i can always beo char bo with and laugh around with. haha !
sheng ming is like a mirror always reminding me of what i do *in the positive way* makes me think if what i say or do will hurt some1 or not.
edwin is like the brudder to do cool stuffs like fishing, backpack travelling and all. hardly any technology de activities.
then still got alot more la.. just that you few are like on my mind now.. thats why named. =D others are all appreciated for sharing moments in my limited years. =D

hi-bye friends
good friends
best friends
besties

if there is ever a hierarchy among friends, i think the 4 mentioned above will be it.

and i think friends dont just come and go. they come and leave something behind in our memories. friendships depends on how much effort you put in to maintain it. it does not fade with time as long as you have the effort to care for that friend in a way you can.

when you dont meet or talk to a friend after some time, it does not mean that friend becomes an acquaintance or just a hi-bye friend. he/she becomes an acquaintance or hi-bye friend only when you decide to let him/her become one. if you still regard him/her as a friend, there will always be things to talk about, there shouldn't be any awkward between the two of you when you meet after some time. because you care for this friend, you will want to know how he/she have been doing and know more about the times you were not with him/her. it should come naturally and not forced.

thank you siying for staying up with me just to make sure i stay awake and study. that was the first time someone did that for me. thanks.
at the same time, sorry.

这些年一个人风也过雨也走
有过泪有过错还记得坚持什么
真爱过才会懂会寂寞会回首
终有梦终有你在心中
朋友一生一起走那些日子不再有
一句话一辈子一生情一杯酒
朋友不曾孤单过一声朋友你会懂
还有伤还有痛还要走还有我

Verse 1:
I look at you. You look at me
(You can tell me you ain't feeling butterflies)
Its obvious there’s some chemistry
(I think I know when it feels so right)
Girl I wanted so long to know
Now your telling me you gotta let it go
(Don’t tell me I have to start all over again)
I never thought this day would come
(This is something that I wanted in my life)
I realized that you’re the one
(And your telling me it’s time to say good-bye)
What’s inside my heart it ain't gonna change
So it shouldn’t be so easy to walk away
(You feel it I feel it lets not pretend)

Chorus:
Maybe I don’t know what love is
Maybe I’m a fool
I just know what I’m feeling and it’s all because of you
Don’t tell me I don’t know I want the truth
Cuz they call it, we call it, you call it, I call it love

Verse 2:
It’s so clear for you to see
(Don’t let no body tell you what to do)
Why they can’t just lets us be happy
(I don’t want to find somebody new)
If you know what’s really in your heart
Then don’t let them tear us apart
(Cuz you feel it I feel it don’t say were through)

Chorus:

Maybe I don’t know what love is
Maybe I’m a fool
I just know what I’m feeling and it’s all because of you
Don’t tell me I don’t know I want the truth
Cuz they call it, we call it, you call it, I call it love

We have a bond thats unbreakable
And its not time to let it go
(We're in love)
And now that we know that it’s real
We're gonna let it show
To the whole world that I’m yours forever
And you’re my girl
You're my everything(i don't know)

Chorus:(2x)
Maybe I don’t know what love is
Maybe I’m a fool
I just know what I’m feeling and it’s all because of you
Don’t tell me I don’t know I want the truth



Mother or Wife
Father or Husband
Best friends or Siblings
Best friend 1 or Best friend 2

who will you save in each life and death situation where you can only save one?


Cuz they call it, we call it, you call it, I call it love